Date Rape

May 1, 2011

Gr 7-10-The Rodgers tackle a sensitive subject in a manner that's easy for young people to comprehend. They cover topics ranging from overt racism to homophobia to the treatment of people with mental and physical disabilities. They discuss the history of hate and include personal accounts from those who've dealt with being stereotyped. The book is well laid out and easy to read, with bolded terms defined in a glossary, a list of resources for those affected by racism or prejudice, a "Coping Toolbox," and a "Hot Topics" question-and-answer section. Readers will appreciate the relevant photos of teens, the quotes, and the honest writing style. According to Wilkins, one in three adolescent girls experiences some form of dating violence, be it verbal, physical, emotional, or sexual. Many of these instances go unreported due to fear, embarrassment, or a lack of understanding as to what actually constitutes abuse. The author succeeds at demystifying this important topic. Including sections such as a list of "Dating Rights," a "Sexual Assault Safety and Survival" guide, and a comprehensive list of resources for those needing assistance, the book also explains terms such as voluntary consent, gender roles, and sexual orientation. Wilkins also addresses violence in the GLBTQ community, date-rape drugs, and the pressure many young people feel to have sex. The accompanying color photographs and personal stories will draw readers in, and the straightforward language and short chapters will keep their attention.-Kelly McGorray, Glenbard South High School, Glen Ellyn, IL

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October 1, 2010
Grades 7-10 Date rape is a serious topic, but this title in the Straight Talk About . . . series extends the discussion and also spends a good deal of its pages covering dating violence, both verbal and physical, which girls dont always understand to be problematic. The books beginning is a bit jarring. A page describes an incident between Basima (pictured, hair covered) and freckle-faced Max, who start off on a race, which suddenly ends when Max trips Basima and she breaks her wrist. Then he pushes himself on her: And he was so strong. Too strong. This decision to include characters from different cultures in the introduction seems odd, but the information that follows is strong and far reaching. The book explains various kinds of violence and tries to define what is acceptable in a relationship (arguments, for instance) and what is not, including using force in sex (and not limiting that to intercourse). The book is also up to date, with a discussion of how modern communication technology such as cell phones and social networking sites can be breeding grounds for violence. The colorful photos are stock, but the Dating Rights manifesto further spells out appropriate behavior in a relationship. Plenty of resource material, of course.(Reprinted with permission of Booklist, copyright 2010, American Library Association.)